Neurodivergence doesn't exist alone, it lives in families
Whether you’re an auDHD mum, an autistic dad, or you have a child with ADHD. You may have just realised your whole family might be neurodivergent, if this is you, you’re in the right place.
I help neurodivergent families understand what’s actually going on, why everyone is struggling, and what to do about it.
Supporting the Whole Neurodivergent Family, Not Just the Diagnosis
Here’s what most ADHD and autism specialists miss: neurodivergence is highly heritable. If your child has ADHD, autism, dyslexia, or PDA there’s a strong chance others in your family do too.
Dr. Cait Wiltsher is a functional medicine practitioner, author, and mother of four boys. She knows neurodivergent family life from the inside, not just the textbook.
She works with families as a whole system, addressing the biological, emotional, and environmental factors that shape how your family actually functions day to day.
Because it’s rarely just one person.
It’s the AuDHD mum running on empty who has a partner whose autistic patterns nobody has ever understood, meanwhile the kids are battling food sensitivities, sleep issues, and anxiety that everyone’s been managing in isolation, without ever understanding why everything feels so hard.
Working with the whole family changes that. It removes the guilt and the shame. It shows you the biology behind what’s been happening and more importantly, it gives you a way to make life actually easier and better.
When you understand your family as a system, everything starts to make sense.
- Functional Medicine Practitioner, trained by the Institute for Functional Medicine (IFM)
- Neurodivergent Family Specialist
- Author & Speaker
One Programme. Your Whole Family. A Plan That Actually Works.
Most families spend years bouncing between appointments: one diagnosis here, one referral there. Everyone looks at one person and nobody looks at the family.
This is different.
Dr. Cait doesn't believe life should be spent in clinics. She offers one package only, just 2 hours and 15 minutes total, for a better future for your whole family.
The first session is a 90-minute consultation:
- A full map of your family's health, behaviour patterns, and nervous system dynamics
- Functional testing recommendations personalised to each family member: gut health, blood sugar, hormones, nutrient deficiencies. Chosen together, selctively.
- Guidance specific to your neurodivergent family includng supplements
- A clear, actionable plan that you and Dr. Cait create together
The second session is a 45-minute follow up:
Results reviewed and Plan refined
Beyond that, Dr. Cait's door is always open. After your final session, you're always welcome to come back. For most families, that's only needed at specific moments:a new stage, a challenging period, because that's exactly how it should be. The goal isn't dependency, it's giving your family the tools to get on with living your best family life.
Not sure if it's right for you? We start with a free 15-minute call to make sure.
Dr. Cait's Debut Book
The Book for Neurodivergent Families Who Are Done Being Told It’s a Parenting Problem
A science-backed guide for ADHD, autistic, and AuDHD families. Your family isn’t broken — it’s just built differently. Learn the framework and get the tools to help your family thrive.
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Bringing the Neurodivergent Family Conversation to Your Stage
Dr. Cait speaks on ADHD, autism, AuDHD, and neurodivergent family systems — for parent communities, healthcare professionals, schools, and wellbeing events worldwide.
Available for podcasts, summits, conferences, and live events globally.
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